A personal introduction · Josh Tucker, Chicago

Weeks of texting. Still no idea who he really is.

See me before you trust me. A short video, then a 15-minute video call, face to face. You decide from there.

Video calls · a few times each evening

I make time for one person.

For women who want something serious, in the Philippines, Japan, China or anywhere else.

Book a 15-minute video call Free. WhatsApp or your browser.

One request, start to finish

From a stranger online to a face you’ve seen.

  1. Watchmy short video
  2. Pick a timeshown in your time zone
  3. Tell me about youa few short questions
  4. I read itmyself, every one
  5. Confirmedby email
  6. Face to face15 minutes, live
  7. You decideat your pace

Why this page

What dating apps do now, and what this does instead.

From what women say about dating foreign men on Reddit (r/adultingph, r/Philippines, r/AskAJapanese, r/dating_advice, 2023–2026). What they want most is a man who is clear, serious and real.

  • Ayoko ng FWB or FUBU. Gusto ko talaga intentional dating po.r/adultingph · “I don’t want hookups. I want intentional dating.”
    Serious from the first line. One person, something real. Not a pen pal, not a game.
  • being treated like someone’s “type” instead of an actual person gets old real fastr/dating_advice
    I want to know you: your goals, your family, what matters to you.
  • But why he still not asking me to be his Girlfriend?r/dating_advice
    Clear intentions, said out loud, before the first call.
  • Scammers. Plain and simple. Pig butchering scamr/Tinder
    Video first. You see my face live before anything else, and money never comes up.
  • Weeks of texting someone you have never seen.

    Common on dating apps
    Fifteen minutes face to face, then you decide.

The call

One 15-minute video call. That’s the whole first step.

Free. On WhatsApp or in your browser. A few calls each evening, shown in your own time zone.

What you get

  • My video first, so you know my face and voice
  • A real conversation, face to face, not a chat
  • Honest answers to anything you want to ask
  • No pressure: say no or end the call at any time
  • Clear intentions: one person, something serious

What booking looks like

  1. WatchMy short video, right here.Step 1
  2. Pick a timeShown in your own time zone.Step 2
  3. About youA few short questions. Answer what you like.Step 3
  4. ConfirmedI read it myself and confirm by email.Step 4
  5. Face to faceFifteen minutes. Then you decide.Step 5
  • 15 min face to face, live
  • 4 calls each evening, at most
  • 72 h of open times shown ahead

Times are shown in your time zone. I read and confirm every request myself.

Questions women ask
  • “Is this a dating agency?” No. It’s my personal page. One person, speaking for himself.
  • “Why a website, not just the app?” A profile can’t show who someone is. This gets us to a real conversation sooner.
  • “How do I know it’s really you?” The call is live video. The same face as the video on this page.
  • “Are you looking for something casual?” No. One person and something serious.
  • “Why the questions when I book?” You saw me first, so it’s fair I ask about you. The call starts with you, not small talk. Answer only what you’re comfortable with.
  • “Will you ever ask me for money?” Never. Not for tickets, visas or emergencies. Anyone who does is not me.
  • “Do I need to download anything?” No. WhatsApp, or a link that opens in your browser.
  • “What happens after the call?” If we both want to keep talking, we do. If I’m in your city, we meet somewhere public, when you’re comfortable.
  • “I’ll wait and see.” There are only a few calls each evening, booked at least a day ahead, and only three days are open at a time.